Wednesday, October 28, 2009

How to support a child's emotional development at nursery

How to support a child's emotional development at nursery?
Hiya How could you help support a child's emotional health in nursery as a nursery nurse? What ways would you do this and why is it effective? Thanks x
Preschool - 2 Answers
 


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The children need to feel respected and valued. Show them that you are sincerely interested in them and what they're interested in. Give them lots of support, encouragement and reassurance. Teach them to use their words, so they feel empowered to attempt to defend themselves if disagreements with the other children arise, and be able to assert themselves when needed.
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children need to be comfortable in their environment, taking the time to settle a child, stay with them listen to their needs ask them questions make them feel valued, respected and like the nursery is their place to feel comfortable in a second home. find out what they like, don't like and ask their parents what the child's temperament is and work to that, if they are shy Talk softly and engage in quiet play. loud stimulating activities for an outgoing child, understanding their physical, social and intellectual needs will help you to understand there emotional ones. each need is as important as the next. also tell the children about been a bully, been kind all the moral and values and allow them to express there anger or emotions to you or other adults and how to tell adults if something happened to them to make them feel secure in their place of learning.




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Saturday, October 24, 2009

im preg at the age of 40 and this is my 7th child, i hoping for a health baby what week can they tell the sex

im preg at the age of 40 and this is my 7th child, i hoping for a health baby what week can they tell the sex?
i have 5 boys and one girl my daughter is hoping for a baby sister :)
Newborn & Baby - 11 Answers
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congrats and between 18-22 weeks good luck
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they wait untill you are about 20 weeks or so...most of the times. Good luck
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technically the sex can be determined as early as 14 weeks, but the ultrasound is routinely done around twenty weeks. My sis found out the sex of her baby at 14 weeks. WE were excited the doctor did an ultasound.
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Not to be rude, but didn't you have ultrasounds in the past? You'd think after 6 babies, you wouldknow what to expect. Like everyone else has said, 20-22 wks is the norm
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When i had a detailed scan th sonographer said they could tell about 16-17 weeks. but that was 3D. good luck x
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lol..don't mean to be rude but you say this is your 7th child..how can you not know when they can tell you the sex? I figured by now you would know. anyway, usually by week 16
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7 babys jesus fuk
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7 kids OH MY GOD I PULL MY HAIR OUT. 20 wks
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I found out with 4D ultrasound at 16 weeks.
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u can find out by the 17th week but i would wait until the 19th week. 17th you may be able to tell, but you may not be, and there is a higher chance of you not being able to tell until you reach 19 weeks.
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14-20 months! Congrats!




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Tuesday, October 20, 2009

Why are Republicans against covering the health insurance of children

Why are Republicans against covering the health insurance of children?
The new health reform bill includes tax breaks and coverage for millions more children living below the poverty line. Why oppose this?
Politics - 22 Answers



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they will have a tired answer for you
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because most of their children are grown and they dont give a shit about anyone else
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its part of the talking points Bush left them
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because RRGHGH MY TAX DOLLARS one of the tenets of conservatism is that money > human life
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1. They are not hiding behind children. 2. We do not need this health care law.
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i agree i think the government should provide everything to everyone for free.
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It's not the government's place to provide health insurance. The constitution says government is only allowed to promote the general welfare and well-being of us, not provide it for us. There's a big difference. I should not be forced by the government to buy anything, ever. Period. Uninsured people isn't the problem. Lack of jobs and work ethic is the problem. After that, those who are truly poor and unable to provide for themselves can be provided for by charity.
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Once the child is out of the womb, that's all they care about. You are on your own now kiddo.
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Your question is stupid. No one is against covering health insurance of children. It is being opposed because that is only one small portion of the Bill. It's like me taking a vote on who wants to make it law that segregation of Blacks and Whites be re-instated. Congress gets to double their wages. Schools will be knocked flat and that money will go to making brothels and government ran crack houses. And everyone who sees you gets to smack you in the face. Oh...and we will give health insurance to millions of children with this same bill. I don't think you'd vote for this one either.
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Because they only believe in family values when it is free.
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My state already offers health coverage for children living below the povery line and from what I understand it is an expectional program. But why should I get double dipped tax wise (once to pay my state tax to fund it's children's health plan and again to fund the federal government's) for essentially the same thing??
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Because their $10,000,000,000 might get reduced to $9,999,900,000.
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Higher taxes, more people with medicare which is already a broken system and the decline of health care quality because nobody wants to enter a field where you have to go to school for an exceptionally long time, only to find out that you'll need a second job to support your joy of saving lives because you get to basically be a government employee who's salary doesn't allow you to break even, and my state already has a program for completely free health care for children under 18 who are from low-income families.
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Hey, you could have a provision in there that says we are going to protect the nation's drinking water supply and I would hope they still would have voted no. When a bill is 98% crap and 2% common sense, you don't tag your yes vote to 98% crap. Use your brain and quit generalizing.
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...so that's all there is to this 2000+ page bill that took political bribery and intimidation to push through even within the President's own party....? gee, I didn't realize it was as simple as that.....I wonder why nobody tried to explain it like that before...when you put it that way OF COURSE it sounds insane and heartless to oppose it.... ...do you think maybe that's why propagandists resort to over-simplification like you display?
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some people think that Parents should care for their own childern...how dare they?.......lol......
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Have you seen my dead sisters TEETH? I want to wear my dead sisters teeth damn-it!
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Everyone in this country who needs health care gets it. You can walk into an ER, any county facility and get care, whether you are a citizen, whether you will ever pay for the care or not. To say that everyone has to Purchase health insurance is ridiculous. Get out your calculator and see what it's going to cost - if we just send illegals home that could help cut costs of the care and fix a lot of problems. So tell me what you agree with about robbing Americans blind to pay for illegal worker's health care.
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this is nothing new. during bushs term they voted against expanding the chip program which was specifically for covereing low income children. my conclusion is that the gop only like rich people or corporations. everyone else is expendable . whats was rumsfields excuse for sending troops without equipment. you send them with what you have. however since the date for war was arbitrary they could easily have supplied our guys with armore or vehicles. they just dont care .
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Many conservative Republicans believe one of the best ways to improve the plight of the poor is to discourage them from breeding. If you discourage the poor from breeding in the first place, their quality of life should improve - so goes conservative philosophy. The problem here is that many conservative Republicans discriminate by whim against those they deem as "undesirable". Republicans are human too! Many of them breed willy-nilly and then discriminate if favor of biases such as religious preferences, race, ethnicity, etc. When it comes right down to it, the U.S. is still a very racially- and ethnically-biased country. It's also a nation that shows bias in favor of income and wealth. If these conservative Republicans had their way, there would still be "irresponsible" breeding. The only difference is the major breeders would likely be those born into wealth, born Anglo-Saxon white or born with whatever traits the conservative Republicans deem is to their own advantage. Right now, many of those that would benefit from health insurance reform are many of those peoples conservative Republicans would rather received no help - the "undesirables". Republicans are only human!
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I'm not. In fact tyrants always use Children and other helpless victims to push their agenda. They make it sound so heart breaking. After all who wants to be against "the children". I would like to ask why people like you don't dig into your own pockets to help them as people like me do? Why do you have to use the government. I think we both know the answer.
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They don't care about poor children. They blame the poor for being poor, and then try and get them to vote Republican, which only makes them poorer, since the GOP only supports the interests of corporations like Walmart--low wages, no benefits. In short, they're trying to create a permanent slave class in America.




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Friday, October 16, 2009

Would you trust your child's health care with Obamacare

Would you trust your child's health care with Obamacare?
me: HELL NO
Law & Ethics - 4 Answers
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No. The idea that bureaucrats in Washington would (even with the help of doctor) be setting protocols for acceptable tests and care is what turned me away from it more than anything else. I don't even mind paying a higher tax or a higher premium if necessary,but I want my doctor to have total freedom to do what he believes to be best when it comes to me, my kids, or my grand-kids, without being concerned about what is covered and what is not. Even now, when he recommends what is going to be an expensive test (like MRI or Cat-scan for example), he is always cautious about what my Medicare will or will not pay. As it is, I have a supplemental policy that costs me another 96 dollars a month to cover most of what Medicare does not cover. I feel truly sorry for those who have nothing but Medicare alone...and I doubt very much if another government health care plan would do any better for the rest of the country.
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You: Not thinking clearly. The current system of health care is horrific. People cannot afford overpriced insurance, or they can afford it but can't GET it because of a pre-existing condition, or they have it and they LOSE it because they get sick and start costing the insurance company money instead of making them a profit. Over 25% of all health costs are insurance company profits. Why? Why would you WANT to pay an insurance company for the right to get health care? Are you insane? You don't seem insane, and yet here you are willing to bleed out your life's savings into the bank accounts of insurance companies. Would I trust my child's health care in some kind of national system? Abso-freaking-lutely. And with all the extra money I'd have, I could make certain that child got whatever care they needed regardless of the circumstances. But don't listen to all the experts. I mean, why start now? Knock yourself out. Pay and pay and pay and then find your health insurance taken away as soon as you have a health crisis. Would you trust your child's health care to an insurance company executive? Apparently you would. Good luck with that, and sorry about your child's future.
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Obama is not a doctor and, therefore, will not be providing the care. I would trust my child's health care to a doctor, which is the same thing I am doing right now.
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Would it realy be that different then trusting them with CHIP? I don't have a child. If I had one though and they had CHIP then I don't see what the big difference would be. That would be like being on Medicaid and saying you are against it. It would simply be extending the benefits you have to others from how the Govt tries to talk. What I don't get is what you think Obamacare will be. Since NO ONE KNOWS.




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Monday, October 12, 2009

Why is McCain always taking photos hugging little kids when he voted against funds for children's health

Why is McCain always taking photos hugging little kids when he voted against funds for children's health?
A self-described "foot soldier in the Reagan Revolution." He voted against expanding the children's health insurance program and against an assault rifle ban. He's against the federal government helping thousands of people who lost homes in the subprime mortgage debacle. But he's OK with the Federal Reserve lending $30 billion to salvage Bear Stearns. What kind of Patriot is he?
Elections - 16 Answers
 


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Hypocrit.
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a patriot who believes people should be self reliant?
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why would you want to ban guns? and he wasn't the one taking the pictures.
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He is a Manchurian candidate that graduated last in his class. He loves preemptive (read: random) wars, and wants to stay in Iraq a hundred years. He is a maniac. Great question. To quote another questioner, "How about a war on poverty?" How about a war on starvation?
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A patriot wh does not believe in the killing of unborn, innocent children like the demos love to do! That is patriot enough for me.
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That is the most pathetic attempt I have ever seen of trying to question the patriotism of a man who has spent 6 YEARS as a POW in a bamboo cage in the jungle of Vietnam, and came back to make a difference by being a politician. And to call his partiotism into question over his stance on THE SECOND AMENDMENT which was the same stance as the REAL Patriots - you know the guys that fought the Revolutionary War... You liberals are so beyond inappropriate it is unbelievable. I sure hope none of the candidates you support get elected.
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He is no patriot. He is a turncoat. He betrays the people of America for the sake of his own agenda
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candlewicke (sorry if I got that wrong) is dead on. I cannot believe people are discarding a real question to defend their gun rights. And I love that you brought up the 30 BILLION. FEMA has already forgotten about the Katrina debacle. I was down there with Habitat for Humanity and the government is yanking the rest of the FEMA trailers. Where is the money to help build them houses? Where is the money for education? For Health? We need to get our priorities straight!
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They all do that. Same old democrat and same old republican....saying one thing and doing another. The US is in a rut
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Maybe this video had something to do with it. www.youtube.com/watch?v=uKCWbq18bNk I will agree with you about Bear Stearns, I don't think the government should have bailed them out, and I'm a Republican. The Blame for the sub prime mortgage problem should be placed on the shoulders of Borrowers that gave false information when borrowing the money and greedy brokers that lied to people so they could make their commission, and the politicians both Democrat and Republican for allowing these kinds of things to happen.
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Because kids need "love" much more than the Democratic way of "excessive Ritalin"! P.S. Chuc'c Son, If you want another War on Poverty, obviously you were not around for LB Johnson's first one!
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it's all for show
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You have mischaracterized the legislation that you are talking about in your question. Do you actually know what the legislation was and what McCain's reasons were for voting against it? Most people opposed that legislation when it was explained to them and they agreed with the President's and Sen. McCain's positions. Only by misrepresenting the legislation can Democrats get people to sympathize with their position. Unfortunately, most people in the US don't follow Congress and they are easy prey for sentimental appeals such as the Democrats use. Common sense would make them reject these costly, ineffective proposals by an out-of-control Democratic Congress if they knew what these proposals really entailed.
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Is this any worse than the global warming (why do you hate your children crap) that Hillary and Obama campaigns spew like venom? Or a celebrity heartthrob supporters who says don't vaccinate your kids, it's murder - then enrorses your candidate and poses for publicity pictures? You better stop worrying about McCain and worry about yourself. You have a problem with innocence and guilt and are much too easily swayed by what's in fashion.
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Because he is very deceptive, and wants to appear to have a heart for people when he really doesn't...
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Wants to be President! What else? McCain was a child of an Admiral and a grandson of another Admiral who could never measure up...another drunk kid of an achiever from a family of achievers. McCain is a lot like Bush, Junior....no actual accomplishments but wants to be perceived as topping their daddies achievements. McCain cannot be considered as a "patriot" unless he stands up and protects the CONSTITUTION!!!! (which he hasn't...)




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Thursday, October 8, 2009

if my child is no longer in college does his health insurance automatically terminate

if my child is no longer in college does his health insurance automatically terminate?

Insurance - 10 Answers
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You'll probably have to check with your provider. I'm currently doing an internship so I'm not technically in college even though I will be going back in a couple months. I had to buy a temporary policy to cover me for the 3 months that I'm out because my parents policy won't cover me if I'm out of school and working somewhere. I am, however, still on their auto insurance. I think it just depends on the provider.
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My experience in this area: When my daughter quit going to college, and when it came time for my policy to renew, I received a letter informing me that she would no longer be covered. I assume from this that the insurance companies check for college enrollment on your renewal date.
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Yes, If your child is not considered a full time student then the insurance company will drop them i have several friends who have had this problem.
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Yes. And don't count on them to let you know your child is no longer covered. You could keep making monthly payments thinking you have it and when it comes time for them to pay up, you were in violation and the insurance is not in effect. If I were you, I would call your company and find out what your options are. Out of college, should be able to find a job with insurance.
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You should check with the provider. In my case my children are covered as long as I can claim them as a dependent on my federal tax return. For me it has nothing to do with being a full time student.
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in some cases, it depends on the age of the child.
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it depends on the plan, but usually... yes I know our plan covered the kids until they were 25 as long as they carried 9 units or more
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As soon as the insurance gets wind of the stoppage of schooling, you bet it will! Seriously, they'd probably term his coverage by the end of the semester.
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Maybe. How old is he? Some plans cover him up to 23 or 25 regardless of status. Some terminate immediately, if he's not a student. Speak with your insurance company or employer to find out for sure.
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Normally you cannot cover dependent children unless they are a FT student. And even then, each company has their own cut off age, usually 23 to 25. If your child is no longer a student, I strongly suggest you purchase an individual policy for them. If a claim is submitted, the company will more than likely send you a letter asking for proof that they are a FT student. If you cannot provide the proof, the claim will be denied. You do not want to learn this the hard way, with hospital bills that are not covered and you are left responsible for the full amount. An individual policy will more than likely save you some money, too. By the way, if they have a job lined up that provides health insurance, you can purchase a short term policy that will cover them while they are waiting for the other coverage to start.



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Sunday, October 4, 2009

Mental health for a young child

Mental health for a young child...?
c...? My step daughter goes in and out of these moods. Mainly when she hears about her dad that is a drug user and is in jail all the time. She has not seen him in years. She is seven. But his mother is trying to see her and has told us she will do everything at all cost to get her. Now we have the police in on everything. But everytime the child hears about anyone from that side of the family she goes into these moods for weeks and weeks. She will hold her self from the bathroom, fight with us, tell us we are always wrong, eat like there is no tomorrow, sleep all the time, wont play with her toys, and so forth. She is not around anyone of these people. The courts have made this clear for the safety and the abuse. What would u do? More info.. She found out about her dad becuase of a family member writing her a letter and sneaking it into a gift. It stated her dad was stabbed, is on drugs and might be going to jail. His mom wrote this. She is twisted...
Family - 5 Answers
 


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I would not talk about that side of the family around her. It is scary to hear that you are going to be ripped out of your family and sent to someone you don't like. She is detaching herself from you because she doesn't know where she will end up. She is also exhibiting depression in a young child. Children at that age don't have the ability to know how to deal with these types of issues. You need to contact a child psychologist to help her with this issue.
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Try to get her some counseling. If there was past abuse at the hands of anyone on her father's side, she's reacting to that. She needs a way to work with her emotions and to deal with them. Be very careful about mentioning any of them within earshot of her. Ask your doctor for a referral to a good child psychologist. If you have no insurance to cover it, since the police are involved you may be able to get some help through family services. Take care of your little girl. All the best to you.
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Why can't she see her grandmother? Edit: Well is he in jail? Yes or no. I mean without all the negative long drawn out details to a seven yr. old child, she does have a right to know why her father is not in her life at the moment without someone telling her lies and ignoring her feelings/rights. Do you realize ignore is the root word of ignorance? There is a point where love gets abusive like that as you candy coat what you assume is love and I do know what I'm talking about. I heard pretty much the same from a 4 yr. old child, my grandchild, who was told a detailed bunch of info I have no knowledge of is or was and yes, she was stressed out. As far as your step-daughter, I understand why every single detail is not necessary but he is her father and she is his daughter according to facts you note. She is obviously feeling oppressed and is acting out because she's catching on to dishonest conversation from you that would come out sooner or later anyways. See, you don't have any control over truth. People have been trying to get rid of truth forever and it never works, in fact, backfires. Besides, what child wants to be lied to and if you lie or she finds out you have lied to her how then, will you teach her that dishonesty and manipuation is WRONG? This little girl will be a woman in the future who will also be someone's wife, mother, grandmother, possibly employee or employer. Who wants to associate with dishonest people who can't be trusted? No matter what the facts are they are the facts ..."where's my dad?" "your father was put in jail by the judge" "what is that?" "jail is a place people have to go when they choose to ignore rules that protect people, including themselves" "they are teaching him that people are suppose to follow rules". A child who is lied to about choosen negative actions by those that claim to love them does not maketh those people a savior. It's pretty close to oke doke on the adult negative behavior to a child who is a human being trying to grow slowly (due respect to childhoods) into an adult. Adults around children do not belong being dishonest while seeing themselves as doing good and again, that builds bad character in a child (common sense). That forces a child to spend their suppose-to-be adult years trying to get rid of mixed up conflicting signals from adults while they were trying to grow up. The bottom line is, there is a clear difference between right and wrong until someone has clouded the issue with confusion. If I were you I would give that man's mother some credit. Perhaps at least that person's mother realizes something you dream isn't real or assume you have the power to hide and for that she's twisted? She does not live in denial of what is going on with *her* son according to your post and is probably most likely not jumping for joy that her son is opting not to have respect for himself PLUS she also as a parent has to watch her grandchild go thru this. Maybe she so does not feel, as a grand*parent*, that a child should be stressed to wonder why other people know their father or where he is. The only way a child would not know what the word father means is if he or she was kept in a closet. I wonder what that woman thinks of you given the fact that the only contact she has with her grandchild, at least that you have mentioned, is being allowed to give her a gift and speak to her thru a piece of paper. That looks cheap on your part and also anti-family. I think you are also conveniently attaching that woman's son to her at the hip which could end up happening to you because you are using your step-child to do so. How do you assume you are not sending mixed signals concerning the basic concept of manipulation to your own step-daughter? How are you related to her father, and were there constant guilt trips about his mother? Seems to me if you have a problem in your life it should remain dealt with where it belongs because you too can work on you despite gossip. I surely know these family problems aren't just a female thing or just a male thing either. If you expect people to be real with you then you should get real with yourself and not focus on meddling your way thru relationships that come easy OR take some work on the negative. That's what healthy ability to love is. The police and a slew of people who get paid according to conflict are on your side? Are they really and are you the type of person who doesn't get it until it's too late? How could you see your step-daughter as an idividual if you can't see other people as individuals? Do you think SHE needs drugs?
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hey there i can share your pain the first thing to do is get her in to see a doctor and he/she can help you find her help to see a child therapist they only work with children this sounds like abuse from the other side of her family and you need to keep records on what the doctors says second you need to hire an attorney and they can file against her father side and once the judge see and hear of all this they can make where they can no longer contact yall and most of all they will protect yall i would make a list of everytime they call or threaten yall and if they continue breaking the order then they are in contempt of the law and they may go to jail third of all the school needs to be known of this also so they can watch her and if they show up at the school the school can press charges finally the most of all she her that you are there for her and you want let anybody hurt her show her love and be patient with her i hope i have help i wish you luck and happiness
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A child who is merely 7yrs old, is far too young to be given those kinds of details about their father. It does nothing but cause psychological problems. This woman sounds like she's got a few loose nuts and bolts. Keep that letter, if you haven't thrown it out already. It's proof that she's not fit for custody or even visitation rights. Also, if the courts have already ruled in your favour, you may be able to get a restraining order. Sneaking a damaging letter like that to your step daughter in with a gift could be classified as assault or willful mental damage to a child. I don't know to what extent of the past exposure she's had with your ex's family, but obviously it's enough that it's done damage. I wouldn't allow any contact whatsoever, unless a judge made me. Until then, put her first and keep them away from her. No letters, phone calls, visits, emails, gifts. Anything. If they show up at your door, don't let them in and call the cops if they won't leave. And do your best not to talk about any of them or the situation around her. Also, since she's exhibiting reactive behaviours to all of this, she may need a child psychologist. Or she may just need you to demonstrate that you are going to keep her safe. Sounds like you need a lawyer. Good luck.




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Thursday, October 1, 2009

Pro guns, pro pharmaceuticals, pro forcing a child to have chemotherapy, pro health insur. companies (murder)

Pro guns, pro pharmaceuticals, pro forcing a child to have chemotherapy, pro health insur. companies (murder)?
AND pro life? How does this compute? I have a theory, that is an aborted baby can't buy a gun, wont need health insurance, will never have a chance to be really sick and require drugs. An aborted baby is the loss of a customer to world corporations. Is this capitalism at its finest?
Government - 2 Answers
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Birth control and self control also controls the lack of control.
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yes, and the people who are pro-killing babies are against killing criminals, terrorists and even animals




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